How to get a man to marry you book
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What's a gal to do when her man's giving her everything she wants except a ring? This irreverent guide will help the marriage-ready woman evaluate the severity of her not-so-ready man's excuses for delaying marriage and sharpen her abilities to dismantle them. With a funny but firm hand, Lori Uscher-Pines, who herself maneuvered for a ring from her now-husband, offers the reader serious tips for securing a marriage proposal from the excuse-ridden, free-milk-gulping man she loves.
Pushing for a proposal is about female empowerment, and this must-have guide will help the reader take control of her personal life without giving up the romantic, "then-he-got-down-on-one-knee" moment she's always imagined.
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It is a historic, sacred institution that provides security, respectability, tax breaks, and regular nookie. Every culture from Africa to Antarctica embraces it. It is proof of your commitment, a public statement that you love and are loved in return.
Hey, dozens of animals for example, beavers, bald eagles Surely if a bird that drinks from puddles and eats trash knows the value of marriage, we all should! Overall, happily married people are healthier, accumulate more wealth, and get a chance at the good life.
You are thinking: If we get hitched, we get to make long- term plans with each other. We get fluffy new towels and a waffle iron. I get to have a big white wedding and make all my friends wear unflattering dresses to get back at them for the hideous peach things I had to wear at their weddings.
I get to be the center of attention for a day and the center of his world for a lifetime. Once upon a time, I too set out to convince my boy friend that it was the right time to marry me, to finally buy this cow. With all that free milk, he had become fat and confused. If you think about it, this requires profound skill. If they charged, you would complain to the manager and hunt for free hot dogs elsewhere. I was once right where you are, feeling the same things you are feeling, and I pushed for marriage and strategized.
I initiated talks about marriage, but months passed. I initiated talks about engagement, but the only proposals I witnessed were on YouTube. He repeatedly said that he understood what I wanted and it was coming.
He offered no formal excuse for stalling, but talked to me about the need for perfect timing. I had visions of toddling down the aisle, leaning on a walker and trying desperately not to break my hip.
Marriage was not coming according to my perfect timing. My man really wanted me to move in with him long before we got engaged. He wanted me to quit my job, change cities, and basically squeeze out all my precious milk for a prospective customer.
My first realization was that doing this would not get me hitched any faster. I credit my husband-catching success to always speaking openly about my expectations and withholding most of my milk until I got exactly what I wanted. In other words, I followed some wise, age-old advice. Since gas started to cost a fortune and milk became free, all the rules of driving and dating appear to have changed. Today you are supposed to fool around in the backseat of a fuel-efficient car, perhaps a Mini Cooper or a Prius.
Well, dating practices may change but human nature does not. Luxury product makers like Rolex know that the best way to make more money and to create mystique is to actually raise the price of a product and to limit the supply. The milk that is given out for free all over the world is not just sex as our grandmothers understood it. Milk is any number of benefits men get from being married. These include sex on a regular basis, companionship, and a wife who gets the car inspected.
You basically need to have premarital sex to play the dating game in this day and age, but how much of the rest of your milk you give away is up to you. Remember that there is no shame in going after what you want or using tactics to achieve a goal. You do this every day in business and in your personal life, and any tools you learn here can be applied to a myriad of life situations. Business tactics win money and power, psychological tactics win hearts and minds, and military tactics win battles.
Getting-him-to-propose tactics win husbands. If you hate thinking of yourself as a cow with a milk supply of sex, companionship, and support to give away, get over it now. All of this is just a funny way to think about a very real problem. Also, get over the idea that pushing for marriage is somehow beneath you. That you should kick butt at work but be passive at home?
Does talking a guy into an institution that will make him healthier, wealthier, and happier seem wrong? Hell no. After getting over my initial concerns, I finally learned how to get what I desired, and the goal here is to teach you everything I learned. The Get-Your-Man-to-Marry-You Plan presented here is perfect for you if you are in a long-term relationship or may find yourself in one in the next few years. Given the fact that the average American male is more afraid of commitment than of a twelve- month tour in Iraq, even if you are single now, you need to know this stuff.
In general, a boyfriend is reluctant to begin what he sees as his lemminglike march to the sea of tulle, rice kernels, and pain. Your relationship may be solid, but he is just not in the same hurry you are.
You feel the biological clock ticking, or you see your friends getting settled and registering for gravy boats, or you want to buy a condo. Unlike Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn, whom you adore, you are conventional and would rather have children in wedlock. Your man loves you, but is just not keen on change. The National Marriage Project at Rutgers University surveyed men and reported that 94 percent of married guys are happier being hitched than being single.
My tactics to trigger a proposal can help everyone, but you should be careful to pick and choose which ones you use if your boyfriend is not serious about you or, alternatively, your boyfriend is extremely serious and is about to propose.
Also, you must select tactics based on the unique personality of your man. All men are not the same, and any dating book that gives you a list of universal truths about men is full of it. This attitude is dangerous not to mention stupid and can lead you to try tactics that can backfire. So, evaluate and modify each potential tactic to speak specifically to him. This plan offers some general rules on human nature, but there are always exceptions.
The plan also requires that you be willing to play tough. If you can continue indefinitely as Smithers to his Monty Burns rather than move on, then these tactics are not right for you. You must be committed enough to becoming his wife to risk becoming his ex-girlfriend.
It is important to remember that society teaches men and women very different lessons about marriage, and we are socialized from a young age.
You are up against very powerful social influences here. Let me explain. When we are around five years old, both boys and girls go to Disneyland. Once at the park, girls learn that the primary concern of every beautiful fairy princess is to land a handsome prince. Boys, on the other hand, learn that you can keep millions of people waiting for hours just by winding a long line around various distractions and curves.
By extension, boys realize that girls will hang out forever if they think that the prize i. As we grow up, the Disney lessons remain. You desperately want a husband, and he knows exactly how to keep you waiting in line as you fry in the sun, hoping to get on the damn ride. If you pick tactics wisely and be strong, this plan will help you avoid all the waiting.
The advice shared here is based on the common, horse sense of my strong Russian grandmothers who, during the war years, managed to score numerous husbands because so many of the men died. Also, the anecdotes in this book are loosely based on m Read more Product details Paperback: pages Publisher: St. If you are a seller for this product, would you like to suggest updates through seller support? Read more Read less. Kindle Cloud Reader Read instantly in your browser.
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What's a gal to do when her man's giving her everything she wants except a ring? This irreverent guide will help the marriage-ready woman evaluate the severity of her not-so-ready man's excuses for delaying marriage and sharpen her abilities to dismantle them. With a funny but firm hand, Lori Uscher-Pines, who herself maneuvered for a ring from her now-husband, offers the reader serious tips for securing a marriage proposal from the excuse-ridden, free-milk-gulping man she loves. Pushing for a proposal is about female empowerment, and this must-have guide will help the reader take control of her personal life without giving up the romantic, "then-he-got-down-on-one-knee" moment she's always imagined.
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